Decide What “Good Practice” Means For Your Kid
Good practice for young hunters is short, safe, and success-heavy.
I keep it to 20 to 35 minutes, I stop while they still want more, and I only “raise the bar” after they stack easy wins.
I have been hunting whitetails for 23 years, starting with my dad in southern Missouri when I was 12.
I grew up poor and learned public land before I could afford leases, and that mindset carries into how I train my kids now.
Back in November 1998 in Iron County, Missouri, I killed my first deer, an 8-point buck, with a borrowed rifle.
That rifle felt huge to me, and I still remember how loud it was and how fast my heart hit.
Here is what I do now with my own kids.
I set a simple goal for the day, like “hit the paper plate 5 times,” and I quit once they do it.
Make One Safety Decision Before Anything Else
If you are practicing with young hunters, forget about fancy drills and focus on safe gun handling that never changes.
I do not budge on muzzle control, finger off the trigger, and a clear target with a real backstop.
Here is what I do.
I make them say it out loud every time, “Muzzle safe, finger straight, target known.”
I learned the hard way that kids mirror your habits, not your speeches.
Back in 2007 in the Missouri Ozarks, I watched a grown man sweep a buddy with a muzzle while “just talking,” and it stuck with me.
I do not let “just talking” happen on the range with my kids.
We shoot. We unload. We talk behind the line with actions open.
Pick the Right Tool, Not the Cool One
Your first decision is simple.
Do you want them to learn clean trigger control, or do you want them to tolerate recoil.
If the answer is trigger control, start lighter than your pride wants to.
I mostly bow hunt and have shot a compound for 25 years, but kids often start with a .22 because it builds calm.
For rifles, I like a .22 LR, then a mild deer rifle like a .243 or 6.5 Creedmoor with a good brake or a suppressor if legal.
For shotguns in places like Ohio straight-wall and slug zones, recoil can wreck a kid fast if you start too heavy.
My buddy swears by starting them on a 12 gauge “so they respect it,” but I have found that flinch is the real respect killer.
Flinch turns into misses, and misses turn into kids who do not want to go.
I wasted money on a lightweight single-shot 20 gauge once because it was “for youth,” and it kicked like a rented mule.
I switched to a heavier youth-stocked gun that fit better, and the recoil felt softer because the weight soaked it up.
Fit Matters More Than Caliber, So Make That Tradeoff
If the stock is too long, your kid will crawl the scope or lean back, and both end bad.
I decide fit first, then caliber.
Here is what I do.
I set the length of pull so their shoulder sits relaxed and their head lands naturally on the stock.
I use a Limbsaver slip-on recoil pad around $35, and I cut a cheap stock if I have to.
I do not care if it looks pretty.
Pretty does not put meat in the freezer.
This connects to what I wrote about where to shoot a deer to drop it in its tracks because the best aiming point means nothing if the gun does not fit and they yank the shot.
Keep Practice Short, Or You Will Burn Them Out
I hunt 30-plus days a year, and even I get sick of the bench after an hour.
Kids hit that wall in 15 minutes.
Here is what I do.
I set a kitchen timer for 25 minutes, and when it beeps, we do “two more good ones” and quit.
I learned the hard way that “one more group” turns into a sour kid.
Back in 2019 on my Pike County, Illinois lease, I was tuning broadheads the night before a cold front sit, and I kept chasing perfection.
I went to bed annoyed, slept like trash, and still arrowed my biggest buck, a 156-inch typical, the next morning.
That taught me that good enough, done consistently, beats marathon sessions.
Start Close So They See Success, Then Move Back On Purpose
If you start far, they miss early, and now you are fixing confidence instead of fixing form.
I start at 10 yards with a .22, 25 yards with a deer rifle, and 5 to 10 yards with a bow.
Here is what I do.
I use a paper plate and a black dot in the middle.
I tell them the rule is “all hits on the plate,” not “one tiny cloverleaf.”
Then I move back in steps.
For rifles, I go 25, 50, 75, and 100 yards only after they keep every shot on the plate.
For bows, I go 10, 15, 20, and I stay there for a long time.
If you are hunting thick cover like the Missouri Ozarks, forget about practicing 200 yards and focus on quick, calm 40-yard shots from odd angles.
If you are hunting open edges in Southern Iowa, then yes, I want a kid solid at 100 yards with the rifle before gun season.
Teach “One Good Shot” Instead Of “Empty The Magazine”
A lot of kids think practice means shooting fast.
I shut that down early.
Here is what I do.
I load one round at a time for the first few sessions, even if the gun holds more.
They shoot.
They breathe.
They reset.
I want them to feel what a single, careful shot feels like, because that is what hunting is.
This connects to what I wrote about are deer smart because whitetails notice sloppy movement and rushed setups, and kids need to practice calm.
Use Real Hunting Positions, But Don’t Get Cute
Your decision here is bench rest versus field positions.
I use both, but I do them in the right order.
Here is what I do.
I start on a bench to sight in and build a win.
Then I move to sitting, kneeling, and standing with sticks, because that is how the woods feels.
I keep it simple with a Bog DeathGrip tripod for rifles if I am helping a smaller kid.
It is not cheap, around $180, but it locks the gun down and lets them focus on the trigger.
I have used cheaper bipods that rattled loose and made kids fight the gear instead of learning.
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For budget practice, I still love basic shooting sticks and a backpack as a rest.
That is the same mindset that made my best cheap investment my $35 climbing sticks I have used for 11 seasons.
Call the Shot, Because It Builds Honest Confidence
Kids will look at you after every trigger pull.
I want them looking at the target in their mind, not my face.
Here is what I do.
Before we check the target, I ask, “Where was it when it broke.”
If they say “low left,” and it is low left, I tell them that is a win even if the group is ugly.
That skill matters in the woods.
I have lost deer I should have found, and I have found deer I thought were gone, and honest shot calling is part of that.
I learned the hard way in 2007 when I gut shot a doe, pushed her too early, and never found her.
I still think about it, and it is why I teach kids to slow down and tell the truth about the shot.
This connects to what I wrote about how to field dress a deer because a clean kill and a clean recovery starts with a clean hit.
Teach a Kid What a “Good Group” Really Is
Your decision here is standards.
Do you want them chasing tiny groups, or do you want them hunting-ready groups.
I pick hunting-ready.
Here is what I do.
I tell them the goal is a 4-inch group at the farthest range they might shoot at a deer.
For most kids early on, that is 50 yards with a rifle and 15 to 20 yards with a bow.
If they can do that on demand, with a cold barrel, I trust them more than a kid who shot one lucky 1-inch group after 20 rounds.
When I am trying to time deer movement, I check feeding times first, and I treat shooting the same way.
I care about repeatable patterns, not one flashy moment.
Don’t Let Gear Become the Lesson
Kids do not need a pile of gadgets.
They need a gun that works, a sight that holds zero, and ear pro that does not hurt.
I wasted money on $400 ozone scent control that made zero difference, and that taught me a bigger lesson.
Money does not replace basics.
Here is what I do.
I buy the good basics once, then I stop shopping.
For hearing, I like Walker’s Razor Slim electronic muffs, about $45 to $60.
They let the kid hear me talk, and they cut the blast.
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For eyes, cheap clear glasses are fine, but they must actually fit their face.
For optics, I would rather have a fixed 4x that holds zero than a bargain scope that wanders.
I have seen cheap rings loosen in 10 shots, and kids think they did something wrong.
Work In One “Fun” Drill, But Keep It Honest
If practice feels like school, kids will quit.
If practice is only games, kids will get reckless.
You have to pick the middle.
Here is what I do.
After the serious shots, I let them shoot steel at 25 yards, but only from a safe position and only one round at a time.
I also do “balloon on a paper plate” because it teaches a clean break.
If they miss, no big deal.
I just bring the target closer until they pop it, then I stop right there on a high note.
My Quick Rule of Thumb
If your kid starts blinking or jerking the trigger, stop shooting and switch to dry fire with a dime on the barrel for 5 minutes.
If you see tight groups but all off to one side, expect a bad rest or a scope issue before you blame the kid.
If conditions change to wind, cold hands, or bulky coats, switch to closer targets and field positions instead of chasing tiny groups from the bench.
Make Tracking and Shot Placement Part of Practice, Not a Lecture
I do not want a kid thinking the job ends when the gun goes off.
I want them thinking about what happens next.
Here is what I do.
I hang a simple deer vitals target and I make them point to the exit they expect.
Then we walk to the target and talk about what would happen in real woods.
This connects to what I wrote about how much meat from a deer because every bad hit wastes meat, and that is a real cost when you process your own deer like I do in the garage.
My uncle was a butcher, and he taught me that clean kills save shoulders and ribs.
If you are hunting small property like parts of Kentucky, forget about “we will find it somewhere” and focus on shots that drop deer inside your lines.
That means closer shots, calmer shots, and fewer risky angles.
Decide How You Talk After a Bad Shot
A kid is going to yank one.
Your reaction decides if they learn or shut down.
Here is what I do.
I say, “Good news, you found the limit, now we fix it.”
Then I change one thing only, like more shoulder pressure or a slower squeeze.
I learned the hard way that dumping five corrections on a kid is the fastest way to make them freeze up.
I have sat freezing in Buffalo County, Wisconsin snow, and I have hunted pressured public ground where one mistake costs you the whole sit.
That same “one mistake at a time” mindset keeps kids improving without feeling stupid.
FAQ
How long should a practice session be for a young hunter?
I keep it 20 to 35 minutes, or about 15 to 25 shots with a rifle.
I stop the second I see boredom, cold hands, or sloppy muzzle control.
What distance should my kid practice at before deer season?
I want all shots inside a 4-inch circle at the farthest range they might shoot a deer.
For most kids, that is 50 to 100 yards with a rifle and 15 to 25 yards with a bow.
How do I stop my kid from flinching?
I go lighter on recoil, double up ear pro with plugs and muffs, and mix in dry fire between live rounds.
If the gun hurts them even a little, the flinch is not a discipline problem, it is a setup problem.
Should my kid shoot from a bench rest or from hunting positions?
I start with a bench to build confidence and confirm the rifle is zeroed.
Then I move fast to sitting or standing with sticks, because that is what hunting really looks like.
What targets work best for kids learning to shoot?
I use paper plates, balloons, and a simple vitals target, because they show hits clearly and feel like a win.
If you want to add real-world learning, tie it to deer habitat and talk about why deer show up where they do, then put the target in a “lane” like a trail.
How do I explain deer behavior without boring my kid?
I keep it tied to the shot and the moment, like “a doe will duck more than you think at 25 yards.”
If you want a quick refresher for yourself, I point people to deer mating habits and do deer move in the wind because timing and conditions change what shots you get.
Use a Simple Zero Plan, Or You Will Chase Your Tail
Your decision here is what zero makes sense for the ranges you actually hunt.
I see parents slap a “200-yard zero” on a kid’s rifle, then wonder why they miss at 35 yards.
Here is what I do.
I zero most kid rifles at 50 yards if the woods are tight, like the Missouri Ozarks.
If we are hunting field edges in places like Pike County, Illinois, I like a 100-yard zero because it keeps the math simple.
I write the zero on a piece of tape on the stock, and I do not touch turrets again all season.
If you are new to this, start with my breakdown of deer species so you are matching practice to the animal you are actually hunting in your state.
Teach “What Happens After the Bang” With One Simple Walk
I do a short walk after a few shots, even at the range.
Kids need to move their feet and reset their brain.
Here is what I do.
We walk down, look at the holes, and I ask them what they felt on the trigger.
Then we walk back and I make them carry the unloaded gun correctly, because safe carrying is part of hunting too.
This connects to what I wrote about do deer attack humans
Deer are not the scary part.
Careless shooting is.
Leave Them Wanting More, And You Win
The whole point is to build a kid who is calm, safe, and confident enough to make one clean shot.
If you do that, the deer part gets a lot easier.
Here is what I do at the end of a session.
I make them shoot one last “easy win” at the closest distance, then we pack up.
I tell them exactly what they did right, like “you kept your cheek on the stock,” or “you didn’t rush the trigger.”
Then I shut up and let them talk, because that is how you find out what they are actually feeling.
I learned the hard way that kids don’t remember your speech, they remember your mood.
If I look stressed, they think they are failing, even if they shot great.
Back in November 1998 in Iron County, Missouri, that borrowed rifle felt like it was trying to jump out of my hands.
The only reason I stayed steady was my dad kept it simple and acted like it was normal to be nervous.
That is the energy I try to give my kids now.
Not perfect.
Just steady.
If you want one more thing to add that costs almost nothing, I like a basic Caldwell DeadShot front bag, around $20, because it keeps the rifle from wobbling on a hard bench.
I have tried using rolled-up coats and random backpacks, and sometimes that works, but kids shoot better when the rest does the same thing every time.
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My buddy swears kids should practice every single week all year.
I have found two good sessions a month, done right, beats dragging a kid out there every Saturday until they hate it.
If conditions change to a busy fall schedule, forget about volume and focus on one “cold shot” at the start of practice, because that is the one that counts in the woods.
When you do get to hunt, keep the same standards you practiced.
If they can’t keep them on a paper plate at 50 yards on a calm day, I do not let them shoot at a deer at 90 yards in a crosswind.
That is not being strict.
That is being fair to the deer and to the kid.
When I am trying to explain deer terms to kids so they feel like they belong, I point them to what a male deer is calledwhat a female deer is called
Then I bring it back to the only thing that matters in the moment.
Muzzle safe.
Finger straight.
One good shot.